Yes in your mind you have made up what your fairy tale will be and even included me in the script.
Really quick before we go down the list of things that sound great to you, have you asked me my thoughts?
Have you dedicated time to understand my psyche or deemed me the one? It is easy to say we get along because we like the same music, or eat similarly. BUT
Are our thoughts similar, The same or simply you just agreeing to appease me?